Life is difficult.
No one gets what they want.
A wonderful man will never pick me.
All true statements...if you believe them. The truth is that whatever you believe to be true, is true...for you. Whether you believe that life is a struggle or a piece of cake, that miracles happen all the time or haven't happened in centuries, it's true because you make it true.
Sometimes you only see those aspects of life which reinforce your beliefs. Sometimes you make it true by what you believe, attracting to your life the situations that make you right.
Be right about something else.
Even if you don't fully believe at first, let the seed grow by nurturing it. The mustard seed is an excellent illustration because it's so small but that analogy is so hardwired into religion that too many people ignore the truth that any seed, nurtured, grows. Take an acorn. The acorn is an oak tree waiting to grow and oak trees can become very large trees indeed.
Is there something you wish to believe?
Plant it in your mind. Water it every day (spend time thinking about what it feels like to believe this truth). Give it sunlight and fresh air (tell the contradictory thoughts that you don't believe them anymore).
Your new belief won't necessarily sprout in 24 hours but give it time and see what happens. You might just believe that life is easy, that you get what you want and then a wonderful man will pick you.
